ActiveExit XP 

ActiveExit XP Edition 3.0 for Windows XP/2000 - a set of tools to control Windows exit: it can log off users or shut down the computer automatically after a period of inactivity, or when the allowed time of using the computer ends, etc.
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Shutdown Lock 

Irritated with the fact that some applications just don't go well together with Window's Hibernate or Suspend features? Get Shutdown Lock and hibernate-enable any application, like FlashGet, or AudioGrabber. 100% FREE to download and try.
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